And we must be good but fair, not submissive or stupid, although we ourselves will never be perfect, we humans are like that and at some point in our lives we have applied anti-values or negative skills, the most important thing is that we try to be ourselves to improve and be good. It all depends on how much you believe in yourself to constantly keep them at a distance. Better try to learn from some mistakes we all make. And not to help those who have never felt what love is, because they take their negativity not to thank you, but to harm you for the help you gave.